Do you feel you’re tugged in a bunch of different directions all the time? Stop – before you answer that, think about this: Do you ALLOW yourself to be tugged in a bunch of different directions?
People will treat you exactly as you allow them to. If you find yourself starting something, then when the next issue comes up, you stop and fix whatever problem it is that pulled you away in the first place.
When you reward good behavior, that will come full circle back to you. Reinforce good behavior in others and you’ll soon find yourself not having to allow bad behavior in your life.
For today, ask yourself: “What behaviors do I want to reward and reinforce in others?”